Ah Si's 心窗.....

Wedding Day

2007-12-17T23:50:00.000+08:00

2007年12月10日是我人生中的大事.
今天我与我所爱的另一伴走在红地毯, 一起走入生命中的另一个阶段.
我们都来之不同的家庭背景, 不同的成长经历, 但却在上帝的爱里建立一个共同属于我们的家.

结婚当天有很多难忘及感动的事. 我希望将它永远的保留住.
有一天当我们都走得很辛苦时就可以回想起这一路来走得不容易...所以不可以轻易放弃.

来看新娘

爸爸替我盖头纱

弟弟送门，要假装很舍不得...

等待以久的新郎...呵呵

To Be Continued....

Wedding Photos

2007-11-24T17:39:00.000+08:00

终于可以分享我们的结婚照了.

离结婚的日期只有14天咯...

什么男人最失败?

2007-05-30T23:20:00.000+08:00

SUPERMAN ?

SPIDERMAN ?

BATMAN ?

答案是....SPIDERMAN!

因为他叫做 '失败的-MAN'

婚纱摄影日

2007-05-26T16:14:00.000+08:00

终于拍完了婚纱照.
上午去TTDI拍外景. 下午在studio拍.
一天, 就这样过去了.

其实...心里是有小小的担心.不知道拍出来的效果是不是自己想要的.
只好相信摄影师的专业了.

拍完之后的感想和每一位拍过婚纱照的感觉是一样的...累垮了!!!
不过如果出来的成品是好的...那就值得咯...

我的妆超浓的...

难以想象自己真的穿上了白色婚纱.

这一天很快就要到来了...

马六甲...我来了!!!!

2007-05-17T14:08:00.000+08:00

因为工作的关系,我的生活有很大的改变.
五月开始...我将会以马六甲成为我第二个'家'.
因为这里的生意越来越大...而吉隆坡的越来越小, 我的大老板就决定派我下来帮助我的小老板.

结果是...公司住了一间condo.
不知道是好事还是坏事...我别无选择.
只知道每星期三天在马六甲,两天在吉隆坡.
说真的...我自己也不知道这样可以维持多久.试着看吧!

一辈子的牵手

2007-02-10T10:05:00.000+08:00

二十二岁的时候我牵起了你的手
涩涩的望着你的双眸想把心里的话对你说

三十二岁的时候我要牵着你的手
缓缓的走进礼堂中共筑属于我们的小屋

四十二岁的时候我要牵着你的手
默默的证明我所说献上累积多年的所有

五十二岁的时候我要牵着你的手
闲闲的看着机窗口体会遨游环宇的感受

六十二岁的时候我要牵着你的手
慢慢的走在细雨中回忆共同度过的年头

七十二岁的时候我要牵着你的手
静静的坐在家门口享受悠闲浪漫的午后

八十二岁的时候希望仍能牵着你的手
轻轻的拥你在怀中用我始终不变的温柔

九十二岁的时候也许再也牵不到你的手
但做了一辈子的牵手爱你的一生早已足够

Do u know the answer?

2007-01-18T23:38:00.000+08:00

FLY vs MOSQUITO

What's the difference between a fly and a mosquito?
A mosquito can fly but a fly cannot mosquito

Although a mosquito can fly and fly cannot mosquito, but why does the fly claims its better than mosquito?
Because mosquito sucks！

DEER

What do u call a deer with one eye?
No idea (no eye dear)

What do u call a deer with one eye and doesn't move?
Still no idea?

不小心

2007-01-11T22:07:00.000+08:00

今年一开始, 就有不好的事发生.

因为…相机不见了!!!!
而且还是第二天才察觉到的.

当我一发现时, 一股恐惧很紧张急速的涌上心头.
因为那架相机可不是我的啊!
冷静的想想…因该是前一晚吃饭时丢失的. 我的包包掉进椅子旁的角落.
我有伸手找找…没东西…所以不以为然.

一定是那里! 越想越有信心一定会找到.
从我的地方到餐厅需一小时, 我半小时就到了.
冲进店里, 直奔昨晚我们坐的地方找来找去.
并没有…
还是没有…
真的没有…

啊!之后好像有走进几间店.
所以就一间一间去问.
虽让我知道即使有人捡到…他们也不可能还给人的.
不过那时我可以做的就只有这样了.

最后一个有可能找到的地方…就是我家.
其实当我发现相机不见时, 第一个就打电话给我弟…在家里找找.
不管怎样还是要试试.
结果…还是没有.

‘怎么办…’
‘怎么办…’
我真的不知道自己可以做什么了.
这时只有坐下来…毫无头绪…也深深的体会到什么叫做’无能为力’.
如果知道可以做什么的话…我一定会做的.

心情很复杂…
紧张…因为还是找不到.
无奈…因为真的无能为力.
害怕…因为不知怎么跟物主交待.
心痛…因为这相机可不便宜. 上网查了价钱…要RM1200，还没包括memory card and casing.

最后我弟送我四个字… “面对现实”!!!!
他说得没错. 能做的都做了…只有接受事实.

朋友说:”你不是故意的, 叫你的BIG帮你付.”
是啊…是我不小心.
难道一句不小心就可以把问题推给别人.
每个问题都要有人去处理.
不管是有心无心,事情总要解决的.
所以我觉得我有责任.

要花一大笔钱买一个不属于自己的东西, 又这么贵, 真的觉得可惜.
心是百般的不愿意. 如果可以的话我也不希望负责 (人的本性是逃避嘛).
但还是觉得必须要勇敢的面对自己的错.
如果这笔钱可以让我学习成为一个有责任感的人..也值得!

有人说:”如果可以用钱解决的问题,那就不叫做问题.”
我也只好这样安慰自己.

毕竟, 钱如果没有永恒的价值, 又何必识她如命呢!

2006 Recap

2006-12-31T22:00:00.000+08:00

2006 has been a great year to me. Since I moved to KL in April 2005, it's been almost 16 months. A lot of new experiences which add spice to my life and also much learning curves which shed lots of tears.

Thanks to my Father who guides me all the way and blesses me abundantly always.
Thanks to my Family who pray for me and supporting me always.
Thanks to my Big who encourages me and strives for our better life always.
Thanks to my Friends who are willing to listen and help always.

Here's the recap of my memorable 2006...

JANUARY
I offered Big's sister to look after her precious son so that she can shop freely for CNY but look what I got her son into. Poor Timothy...I was just walking a few steps away from him and he thought I'm playing hide-and-seek with him. He ran so fast to towards me and never realize that I was on a lower floor. He landed on his forehead and when I hold him up...he became like this (look at his forehead):

Poor Timothy!

The rest of the day he keep tapping his chest...meaning "I scared".
I feel guilty lo...'no face to see him'... Ha ha!

FEBRUARY
My favourite festive season, Chinese New Year.

Once a year I bake cake using my mum's super old oven. My cheesecake bake from this oven is so niceeeeee until mum's colleague even order one from me for RM 40. Well, the next year she never mentioned again (*_*) Then I realized....the best cake I made ever is on the first time I started baking.

Queenie, my best friend's daughter. She spits out anything that she doesn't want to swallow and slaps you if she's not happy with you.

Little Queenie

My first Yee-sang.

MARCH
Training in Bangkok. Each year I met new friends from overseas. This year I met Su-Kyeong, a beautiful Korean young lady. Surprisingly... more people think that she is Japanese and I'm Korean???

Su-Kyeong and me

Colleagues from Korea, Taiwan and Singapore. We became buddies and still keep in touch even until now.

See the big size ang-moh at the back in blue and yellow shirt, they are our trainers.

Company annual dinner...The most memorable dish is Ah Yat Abalone. Cos the goose claw taste better than the abalone.

Ah Yat Abalone

And my first taste of Buddha Jump Over The Wall. Still don't know why this dish is costly. I only know I found chicken skin besides abalone, sea cucumber, etc...and this already spoil my impression of this great dish for Emperor.

Buddha Jump Over The Wall

APRIL
A big issue happened at customer side and I have no peaceful nights for almost 2 months.

Production line

MAY
To be a healthy Ahsi, I decided to sign up for fitness membership.

JUNE
Company trip to Bali despite volcano eruption. Bali is a beautiful island with rich culture and art. But we have some bad experience of been chased after by groups of adults and children into buying their crafts.

View from airplane. Can u see the smoke?

JULY
This year is the 7th year after we graduated from STMS (Short Term Missionary School). Because we are the 7th batch, all 42 students 'pledged' that we shall gather again on 7th July after 7 years.

Everyone is scattered everywhere in the world. So we started from those staying in KL. The grand gathering will be on 2007 CNY at Sibu.

Dinner at San Francisco Steakhouse

We start our gathering at 2pm, have so much to talk until we finished at 11.30pm. Non-Stop!

AUGUST
Church camp at Port Dickson.

Joey, me and Mei Ling

Joey is a beauty editor for a famous magazine. Basically she don't need to spend a cent on those newly launch skincare and cosmetics products we see in magazine. Cos they'll call her up and offer her to test and write about their products. So nice.... We also call ourselves as 'Gou zai dui' (Meaning Paparazzi in Chinese).

SEPTEMBER
Penang trip with colleagues. Althea and Ah Kok is coming up from Singapore to join us.

Must-go place in Penang cos mum is a nutmeg lover.

OCTOBER
Long awaited month...
Back to Sibu to celebrate Mum's birthday and Mooncake Festival. As I haven't been back for sometimes, I really miss the local food which no where else can be found. As our normal practice, we'll go out for breakfast every morning. My family also very keen to bring me around so that I manage to eat all the food that I have been missing.

My arrogant Miao Miao. Never want to see me when I take his photo.

Miao Miao

My horny Brownie. Always go out flirting and don't want to come back. So we normally just lock him outside the house.

Brownie

NOVEMBER
Have 2 new process installation in Melaka...spend almost the whole month there. This month I really drive a lot cos need to bring our collegues from US, Thailand and China around. Got more familiar with the historical town. But what I miss more is still the food!

Chicken Rice Ball

Satay Celup

Beef Noodle

DECEMBER
What can I say? But it did give me a lesson to drive more safely. Thank God that I'm safe.

The True Christmas

2006-12-25T23:08:00.000+08:00

Christmas Season

2006-12-24T23:30:00.000+08:00

This is my first year celebrating Christmas in KL.
So I took some nice photos of Christmas decor at a few shopping malls.

Mid Valley Megamall

There are so many candy houses that make you feel like in fairytale....

Blue Christmas at The Curve

White Christmas at Lot 10

As for my Christmas gift......

Thanks to Santa-Kok, Santarina-Dora, Michelle and Chris

Wishlist...Gotcha!

2006-12-16T23:34:00.000+08:00

I have just uploaded my Christmas wishlist for a few hours when Mr Big came home with a digital cam...!

Digital cam is one of my wishlist's item which I never expect to get (haha..just to encourage myself to save more to get one). So I'm really excited. It's a token of heart from his boss for rewarding his hard work, I guess. Cos he is working really hard, even on most weekends.

Well, it's not for me....but, I'm authorized to use and safeguard.

Am happy enough...of cos lo...it's FOC!!!

CASIO Exilim S600

我的时间

2006-12-16T10:00:00.000+08:00

一天一天的过去, 时间好像跑的越来越快.

总觉得我怎么都赶不上它.

试问我们有没有珍惜每时每刻?

我好像没有.

因为有很多应该做的事不想做.

也有很多想做的事但不去做.

虽让安排了时间, 但每到那一刻就觉得力不足.

我总是随着心情来过我的日子.

久了, 生活就堆满了垃圾.

开始觉得人生方向模糊了, 日子混乱了.

2006年即将闭幕了.

是时候安静自己, 整理自己.

检讨过去的自己

面对现在的自己

改变未来的自己

盼望你我都能活出精彩, 有意义的人生!

The Days Without Car

2006-12-15T10:47:00.000+08:00

Thanks to my lovely housemate, Siew Wei and my colleague, Chris who are willing to bring me to work and send me home.

The very first morning without car, Siew Wei and I decided to have breakfast together before work. So we choose to eat Dim Sum near my office. This type of chance is very rare....ha ha. We are both excited as this remind us of the good times with our own family who used to eat breakfast outside every morning. Here...we seldom do that as eveyone is rushing for work and leave house at different time.

One thing I feel strange is that she put her tissue box in front of her steering.

'How are you able to see the front?'
'Oh...never think of that. Just feel that this is more convenient to take tissue. What for I put faraway?' *_*

How many of you is doing her way?
Cos not only it block my view, the reflection of light is a disturbance to me.

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As I can't go out to dabao, the food that I have at home is either dried or frozen. The whole day, I eat instant noodle, hot dog, frozen dumpling, frozen pau, frozen glutionous rice ball....

Cannot tahan liao...
So this morning I decided to go market to buy fresh food.
I am a bit pissed off...as suddenly I am labeled as 'Auntie'

'Auntie, lei you mai me a (what do u want to buy)?'
'Mmm.....'
'Auntie, lei you me a (what u want)?'

I turn...saw an old woman about 60 year-old pick here pick there.
Wah lau e... she called a 60 year-old woman auntie,
she also called me a 20++ young lady auntie....
You say....气不气!

But stupid me lo...I still buy from her!

New Toll Rates in Klang Valley

2006-12-14T22:52:00.000+08:00

KUALA LUMPUR: Toll rates of five highways - Lebuhraya Damansara-Puchong (LDP), Lebuhraya Shah Alam, Lebuhraya Cheras-Kajang, Lebuhraya KL-Karak and Lebuhraya Koridor Guthrie - will be raised from between 30 sen and RM 1 from Jan 1 2007.

The new toll charges are:
LDP, RM1.60 (previously RM1)
L'raya Shah Alam, RM2.20 (RM1.50)
L'raya Cheras-Kajang, Batu 9, RM 1 (70 sen)
L'raya Cheras-Kajang, Batu 11, 90 sen (60 sen )
L'raya KL-Karak-Gombak, RM5
L'raya KL-Karak-Bentong, RM3 (RM2.50)
L'raya Koridor Guthrie, RM1.40 (RM1)

Works Minister, who announced the rates on Thursday, said the rates were much lower than what the highway concessionaires had asked for, in accordance with their concession agreements. He said the government revised the demanded rates, because it did not want consumers to be burdened.

Source: The Star, 14th December 2006

Black Tuesday

2006-12-12T16:39:00.000+08:00

This morning, my car was knocked by a Mitsubishi Pajero on my way to office. The first cross junction after exit highway was down and you can guess already with traffic in KL...everyone was moving like mad cow (including me...He he) I wanted to go straight...the two rows of car from my left has stopped to let me go...but then a pencen Ah Pek drive fast and steady, didn't know my car was there.....BANG!...hit from the left.

Thanks to this fellow uncle. And what happened to my car?

And later, which is what I never expect to see from my own eyes...the true side of our community.

My friend called someone from motor servicing company and they brought me to police station to logde report. When came to my turn...I noticed that the lady officer wear a badge said "SAYA ANTI RASUAH" and I was surprised that she treat me nicely...Wah..nowadays...police really improved a...

When finished...the guy from motor company asked me to leave first...then he 'slide in' a red note (RM 10) under the papers...acting like nothing happen!!! After that I asked why he did that. 'You think why she nice to you a...she already smile to us when we just came in, all these have to pay one!'

Later, we went to see Surgen who will decide who get the summon.
I sit in front of him, say nothing, sign my signature and leave the room...in less than 2 minutes. So the same thing happened...the guy went into the room and they chat very long.
When he came out...

'How much did you give him?'
'RM100'
'HA...........!!!! So much!'
'This is not much lo....sometimes have to give RM150-200'

Cannot imagine Malaysia's future...Mou ngan tai (Cantonese)!

So my car was sent to garage for at least 5 days...and I'm like 'crippled'.
In KL, if you don't have car especially for sales....you are 'paralyzed'!

New Laptop

2006-12-07T23:01:00.000+08:00

At last, I got a totally new company laptop.

Why am I happy over a laptop which doesn't belong to me?

Well...my company have a strange policy before this that every new laptop has to start with our managerial level. So their used laptop will pass down to the senior engineers and guess what... the juniors get the almost-dying laptop which had been through don't know how many hands.

When I first joined the company about 3 years back...I was just so excited to hear that I'm going to have a notebook...(You know la...fresh grads...shock man!) But my heart sank like Titanic when I took out a 1.8 inch thick 'textbook'! It was among the oldest series of IBM Thinkpad and guess what...super duper heavy! I was told that IBM is the pioneer of notebook maker but it was really hard for me to appreciate. I feel shy to even take it out as other supplier was using the latest Dell model. It took me almost half a year to slowly 'accept' my given notebook.

The second year I got another one...because my IBM died. The problem was...the 'A' button...when you hit it...letter 'A' won't come out. So our IT guy diagnosed that the keypad was damaged and cannot be re-lived.

Here it comes...HP...thinner, 1.5 inch but still heavy. This is the one that I always hear complains from it's owner in Singapore..and I never expect it to have next owner...me! Well, after been with it for 6 months, suddenly one day, it just died. I had to send it to Singapore to recover all my important data, then to HP head quarter in KL but no way to save.

So then I transfered from Singapore to Malaysia branch. I thought this time they might give me a better one as I heard that Malaysia's culture is different. So I got this...

Dell Latitude D400.
Though the previous hand is our MD, it was a lot better than IBM and HP.
1 inch, lighter, smaller and faster....more sleek too...
The only thing is that the CD Rom is external so...at times when you really need to run CD...you'll be in frustration. And why bother to bring extra things?

Life's short.... after one and half year it starts to give problem. It'll restart 3-5 times before logging into Windows. This takes about 30 minutes and shutting down needs 10-15 minutes. IT department suggested that I should get a new one as it may die anytime. So that's how I have a new one...finally...

Dell Latitude D620.
1 inch, wide screen, Intel Core Duo processor.
And build in CD burner and DVD rom.
The best is....it totally new!

After having 3 laptop died in my hands...I guess how long will my lap-baby survive..Haha!

洗车

2006-12-06T23:00:00.000+08:00

晚上和大学朋友越好在KLCC一起吃晚餐.
为了避开赛车, 所以决定搭LRT.
当我开车到LRT站时...就有3位印裔男子...很友善的招手, 指着一个空的泊车位.
我的心犹豫一下...不知道这是不是有特别收费的...因为天下没有白吃的午餐.
而且, 他们这么友善...一定有事. (这就是城市人心态...)

转头看看...也真的是没别的空位了.
管他的. 就泊吧.
下车...天开始变黑...打雷...

'Ah Moi! Lima ringgit cuci kereta!'
'HA....!!! Sudah mau hujan...mau kerja lagi ke?'
'Tak da lah...' (那时雷声越来越响...真的是振大眼说瞎话!)
'Tapi kereta saya baru cuci le...tak mau lah...'
'Bolehlah...lima ringit saja...semua kasi bersih bersih'
'Tayar juga masuk cuci?'
'Ya ya. Mesti lah...'
'Ok lah...Tolong jaga kereta a...'
'Boleh, boleh...OUI!!!!!! Mari sini.....!!!'

迎面而来的是一个很瘦的老阿伯...骑着单车，后面载着一桶水.
看到这一幕, 觉得有点心酸.

朋友说得没错...
五块钱对我们而言不是大钱...我们的一餐饭往往是五块钱的好几倍.
但对他们来说, 确实能让他们养家活口.

近来攫夺案越来越多, 不知道是不是生活真难到极点, 还是因为人心变了, 为了自己可以伤害无辜性命. 这些洗车的伯伯...至少...选着靠自己的劳力来换取生活.

上了LRT...不到10分钟...就下了很大很大的雨!!!! *_*

真的价钱!!!

2006-12-06T14:57:00.000+08:00

午餐后, 要结账时, 我拿出两张RM10纸钱给服务生.
一会儿, 他走过来...

'小姐, 这张钱是假的.'
'假的? 怎么可能!'
'是假的. 你看, 这张看不到人头. 而且, 摸起来比较滑.'

拿过来摸一摸...果然不一样.

想一想, 这钱因该是昨天下午买午饭时找回的.
记得我当时是给老板RM50，他共给回4张RM10，所以没去留意.
事实上, 平时也不会去注意每一张钱吧.
在想...老板其实是自己也不知道...还是有意图...刚好遇到机会?

仔细看...还真的很假.
看起来是用glossy paper影印出来的.
旁边的银色直边还是用银色手工粘纸粘上去的...还可以撕开来!

还好这只是RM10, 如果是一张RM50, 那真的是会摧心肝啊!!!!
希望大家也都留意到手的钱.

看来生活真的是越来越难咯...

人類疾病百科全書

2006-12-02T13:53:00.000+08:00

部落格

2006-12-01T16:41:00.000+08:00

拥有个人的部落格是自己从来都没想过的.
之前总觉得这是件浪费时间的事啦.
所以从不留意. 特别是当朋友邀请我到他的部落格看看...我只是应酬应酬.
不知怎么的...我的想法改变了...

有一次, 很用心的阅读朋友在他部落格所发表的心得...就这样被感动了.
或许, 是因为想念老友...想到年少时候...大家都充满梦想.
或许, 是因为出了社会...每天忙碌工作...却忘记了如何生活.
或许, 是因为现实生活...不断要求进步...却忘记了珍惜身边的一切.

对我来说, 部落格是个人的心灵空间. 很随意的...让一个人面对生活, 面对自己.
尽管是开心, 伤心, 有趣, 无聊.... 让回忆保全起来.
同时也可以和其他人分享...彼此鼓励...充满温馨的空间.
现在可以体会朋友们的心情了...就是当自己有了部落格, 也很希望和大家分享.
有时生命到了十字路口...除了上帝的同在, 也很需要朋友的相伴.
毕竟...人生本来就不是独角戏!

Flaming Sambuca

2006-11-27T23:00:00.000+08:00

A week before, Tai brought a German colleague to an Italian bistro in Melaka.
And the German claimed that the food taste very close to the authentic Italian gourmet.

So, this week he brought me, Visidh and Peter who came from Guangzhou to the same place again. The environment is good and the food is nice...

Well....it's not for me to judge if the food is really Italian but I can say it's not bad. The most interesting part is when Visidh order a sambuca and the show begun....

To feel more live, you can view the video.
You probably have to tilt your head 90 degree in order to see.
Ha ha...sorry for that.

Bicolor Sweet Corn

2006-11-26T21:42:00.000+08:00

Mr Big's boss brought these to us....

Special sweet corn from Cameron Highland, which I never seen before.
This species have yellow and white kernels!!!
Guess what? It is sweeter, juicier and thicker than normal yellow corn.
The white kernel actually taste sweeter than the yellow.
And just eat one then you are full already!

Then I know....
Sweet corn comes in three colors: yellow, white, and bicolor (yellow and white).
Cross-pollination of yellow kernel varieties with white kernel varieties will result in production of bicolor corn. Also, if a bicolor is cross pollinated with a yellow variety, kernel color will be predominantly yellow.

贴心服务

2006-11-10T21:42:00.000+08:00

在马六甲住了整个星期, 开始想念大城市的生活了.
想念健身房.
想念宽大的高速公路.

回到饭店, 又是面对着同一个陌生的空间.
可是...今天有点不同.

当我放下公事包时, 发现我的袜子在椅子上排的整整齐齐.
可爱的小熊Winnie对我微笑.
心里突然感到很窝心.
反复回到自己的家...很舒服.
服务生贴心的小动作另我疲惫的心变得愉快.